“In some ways, I think I’ll never be over him,” Langston said. 
“That is such an unsatisfying answer.”
“That’s because you’re interpreting in the wrong way. I don’t mean it as a wistful, overdramatic declaration. I meant that the love I felt for him was huge and real, and, while painful, it forever changed me as a person, in the same way that being your brother reflects and changes how I evolve, and vice versa. The important people in our lives leave imprints. They may stay or go in the physical realm, but they are always there in your heart, because they helped form your heart. There’s no getting over that.“ 

Dash & Lily’s book of dares - Rachel Cohn and David Levithan
Such an amazing book. Read it.